Safety, built in.
Most of it isn't a setting. It's how BeMoon works.
Three rules. Everyone agrees.
Be kind.
Respect everyone you meet here, online and off.
Be real.
No taarof: your own photos, your real age, your true intentions.
A no is a no.
If someone isn’t interested, let it go.
You decide who reaches you.
A closed inbox
No messages before you both say yes.
Quiet blocking
Block or unmatch any time. They're never told.
Reports with context
Our team sees exactly what you saw.
Block contacts
Only scrambled fingerprints of numbers are uploaded.
Never closer than 2 km
Distances are rounded. Your location stays on our servers.
Hide and Incognito
Hide anyone. With Pro or Max, be seen only by people you like.
Before you meet
- Meet somewhere public. Get there and back on your own.
- Tell a friend where you're going.
- Keep chatting in BeMoon until you're ready.
- Leaving early is always fine.
BeMoon isn’t an emergency service. If you are in danger, call your local emergency number (911 in Canada and the United States).
Behind the scenes
An automated check flags possible abuse for review. Staff can open a conversation only when a report names that person, with a written reason, and every access is logged.
Our team can restrict, suspend or remove a member. A restricted member sees the reason and the end date, and can appeal.
At launch: selfie verification and Share a date.